On the cover of my friend's binder is a family tree. This is no ordinary family tree. She is at the top of the tree and five branches come down from her. One of her daughters, according to the family tree, has five wives. Yes, wives. And she's not the only one. Polygamy, gay marriage, missing fathers, adopted kids, and transgenders are all on are tree. 'The Family' as members call it, is constantly growing. It is interesting that, in a setting that is one of the most unforgiving places in our society, this imaginary family is so incredibly creative. As for me, I'm the family elf.